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Hi! I am Veronica and I have to admit that I am completely obsessed with bondage. I am not sure how it started. I think it was when one of my first boyfriends, tried a pair of handcuffs with me, while we had sex. The feeling of losing total control, and being his slave, elevated my sexual pleasure to its zenith. I instantly realized I need more of this. Thus, all my later relationships, wherewith men who shared the same passion as me. I wanted to give in more to being submissive as I love the sense of feeling helpless in my man’s hands. I do not only though enjoy bondage, but other kinds of BDSM, fetishes, such as whipping, spanking, gagging, being pierced by my beloved master and so much more! 

Bondage is about losing control 

I think it’s all about losing control. Once I am tied up, I have no will or power over myself, and this feeling of having no other choice but to obey, makes me feel strongly aroused and excited. I can let it all go, and simply enjoy my partner’s will on my body. Of course, I trust completely my partner, and he knows all the things I need. It is amazing to lose control, over someone who knows how to bring you pleasure and make your body a temple of his own satisfaction as well as yours too. 

I love everything, from being tied up, to having a gagging ball stuffed in my mouth, being spanked and whipped, and having my body used to bring pleasure to my partner. This sense of belonging sexually to my man gives me more tense orgasms than I had before. It is so satisfying when one can do what they want with my body and even surprise me with new things I had never tried before. Once my boyfriend, after he had tied me up, he also put on me a blindfold. With my eyes covered, and my hands tied, the rest of my senses were risen up, as a result for me to end up squirting uncontrollably and having multiple orgasms, one after the other. 

Another time, I was handcuffed to the bed, and my partner started arousing me sexually by touching my body with a leathered whip, tickling my hot spots such as my nipples and clit. Every now and then he used the whip to spank my thighs and ass, making me extremely horny and wet. By the time I was begging him to get inside me, he left the room. I was laying there on the bed, fully aroused and anticipation for when he will come back to finish up my pleasure, made me feel even hornier. When he finally came back and slipped his penis in my soaked dumped sex, I immediately thought I was about to cum, as my loins were boiling up my juices! I still remember how happy and satisfied I felt. It was heavenly and dreamy, beyond words! 

The fascinating world of bondage 

While tied up I have no time to think and decide, so I just enjoy the experience to the fullest. I hope you also will be able to discover the fascinating world of bondage. It gives you the satisfaction and pleasure to relax and enjoy. You will find it amazing how your partner will share with you his sexual desires, by letting him use your body. It takes off the edge and you can let yourself loose, so the fulfillment is bigger and more complete. It saves you from the burden to take any initiative and takes away the stress about pleasing your partner. He will get what he wants from you, and you will have the joy to experience all this satisfaction. 

Your partner will lead you into the paths of mutual pleasure and will indulge your senses by increasing them. Bondage also gives you room to try more things and add a variety of fetishes you might enjoy or wanna try. It’s perfect for me and I strongly recommend bondage, as I am sure that those who will try it, will find it equally marvelous! 

With the 50-shades movie setting a whole new standard when it comes to sexual experiences, you might find it difficult to actually find women in New York that is up for a BDSM experience. Not all women find pleasure in spanking, being tied up, or play the game as a sex slave.

Finding A BDSM Partner In New York

If you are looking for a BDSM partner in New York, then your next step should be to register with our BDSM community now and complete your profile, including the area where you are looking for a partner. Of course, you do not have to limit this to New York, but if you do, you will receive matches from your area and find it easier by only having women in your area as suggested new connections. But do indeed broaden your search area if you’re one of those who do not mind at all some traveling in order to have the ultimate BDSM experience!

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The registration process is simple and straight forward. Just enter your personal details, and select your sexual interests. Once you are logged in, you can start completing your profile. Upload a photo, write a few words about yourself, and select all the interests and preferences that you might have. Remember, the more accurate you fill in these options, the better matches will be presented to you in our member dashboard.

Bondage Chat or Live Meetings In New York?

One of the most popular features on our site is the possibility to have a live webcam chat with other members that are online in our chat rooms. So, you can actually choose if you want to have some fun on a webcam, or go for personal meetings in New York, either in a hotel, privately, at a night club or a bar. By finding a date using our community it will be easier to know that your date for the evening is ready for more than just ordinary straight sex, but make sure you all agree first on what is allowed and what remains forbidden! Read every member’s profile carefully, so you don’t get disappointed!

I thought it would be a good idea to find some interesting BDSM blogs, something different from the usual fare. Instead of blogs that just feature pictures of last week’s escapades, I thought I’d go for five different sites, each approaching BDSM from a different perspective. So without further delay, here they are:

Dominationsubmission

Dominationsubmission is an interesting blog written by Master P. He takes the approach that BDSM is a complete lifestyle and must be approached as such. The blog is updated fairly often, usually several times per week. Master P writes about interesting philosophical topics about the BDSM lifestyle. I like that he has a section dedicated to “Training Ideas”, and not just ones geared toward newbies. Continuing education is always a plus! I particularly like the picture section on dominationsubmission. They’re all high-quality, and the variety covers both artistic and sexy (or both!). The themed sections, like “BDSM Christmas Ideas”, can also be quite inspiring.

Kink In Exile

Kink in exile is a blog that is at the other end of the spectrum. It has an austere, simple look. It also takes the approach that BDSM shouldn’t, or doesn’t need to, be a lifestyle. I think this can be an interesting viewpoint for those of you that may not be looking for an entirely new lifestyle, but still want to enjoy BDSM. Though Kink in exile isn’t updated quite as often as dominationsubmission, I think the quality of what’s posted makes it worth checking out, especially if you’re looking for a point of view that’s a little different from the mainstream.

Domina Victoria Rage

Victoria Rage is professional dom and her blog is interesting because it can give you insight into the professional side of things. Personally, I find that fascinating. There’s a whole new dynamic of balancing fun and pleasure against more mundane business concerns. Victoria updates her site often, sometimes several times a week. She writes both in general terms and about her personal experiences. I also love the stories and role playing fantasies she injects into her site every once in a while!

A Kind Dom

While I’m talking about blog’s by doms, here’s another one that is a completely different take than Victoria Rage’s professional blog. This blog gets updated about once a week, and is written by a dom that likes to emphasize the kinder and more sensual side of BDSM. Whether you like this type of BDSM or not, I think it’s wonderful to present it, even if for no reason other than letting people know it exists. The site has a simple look with almost no pictures, but I can think of some people I know that would definitely prefer a site with this tone over more traditional ones.

A Submissive’s Musings

Enough about doms, how about a blog run by a submissive? This blog is a great one to check out. It’s run by a married woman in the UK. For starters, I love the pictures done in 40’s and 50’s pinup girl style! The blog is updated about once a week, and in addition to regular blog posts, there are sections about rules, a training log of what training she’s completed and what she wants to complete. There is a log of punishments that she has earned, and lessons she has learned. And my favorite, she has a list of 101 things she wants to accomplish, some sexual but most nonsexual, which gave me more understanding into how BDSM fit into her life as a whole.

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